There are so many ways to be social. Organizations that you belong to. Family or school reunions. The Gossip Columns in older newspapers to name a few. I am going to focus on family reunions because this is the summer that my Dad's family will have their next reunion.
My Dad was the oldest of eight children so today there are alot of us. Our reunion usually has at least 100 people attending on average lately. There always seems to be some members missing due to conflicts with other things in their lives, but they attend when they can. All eight children married and moved away from the town where they grew up, so now, sometimes the reunion is the only time we cousins see each other, but we seem to pickup where we left off the last time we saw each other.
The first several reunions were held at my grandparent's home with it's large wraparound porch and huge yard. Everyone brought food and we grandkids played and played. In 1991 with the family growing, many of the grandkids had families of their own and the gathering was held at a lake location near one of Dad's sisters. By 1996 both of our grandparents had passed on, Grandma just weeks before the reunion. That year we began having the reunion at the Lake Raystown Resort where we would rent the picnic pavilion with the sand volleyball court near the waterpark and mini golf course. Lots to do with each other. It has been held there ever since always in the same pavilion. The lake is centrally located in Pennsylvania and is convenient to most of us. Some family members make a weekend of it now by camping or staying at the resort's lodge or a local hotel. When I began my interest in genealogy, I became one of our family's members who brought family binders and photos etc to the reunion. I always tried to have something newly found since the last reunion to share with the family and had an updated sheet of births, marriages and deaths since the last reunion to have available for anyone else who wanted to keep track of those things. Today, there are 121 Floyd & Elizabeth Heacock descendants (5 already deceased) plus currently about 44 living spouses or significant others.
You have so many fantastic photos of family reunions. I went to one family reunion probably about eight years ago now. It was a lot of fun. I went on my own so it was a bit scary but I was made feel very welcome. I didn't really know anyone because it was a side of the family I had very little contact with. I may have met some of them at my grandfather's funeral twenty years before. It was wonderful to be able to look at the family bible and get some help with family photos I had. It took a lot of work to organize and I am very grateful for my cousin's hard work and hospitality.
ReplyDeleteThanks, I am fortunate to have access to all of the photos that I have.
ReplyDeleteAnd I can certainly see how it would be a bit daunting to not know your relatives at a reunion. Somehow good families can make you feel like it was yesterday that they saw you last and be welcoming to newcomers.